Atomic Habits: Book Notes
My personal notes on Atomic Habits, one of the best books I’ve read on habits. It is a must read! If for some reason you can’t read it I’ve outlined examples and key ideas from the book, but I really recommend buying it.
Chapter 1: The Surprising Power of Atomic Habits
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Success is the product of daily habits-not once in a lifetime transformations
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You don’t become a millionaire in one day
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Habits are the compound interest of self improvement which means getting 1% better every day counts for a lot in the long run
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If I accomplish one extra task each day, it doesn’t seem like much now, but over several years this simple things accounts for a lot
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If I run 0.1 miles more every day for a year, I will end up running 36 more miles than I would originally have
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Focus on your system, not on setting goals
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Goals are the results you want
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Systems are the processes that lead to those results
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My goal is to run a 10K: My system is the way I train, how much I sleep, how often I train, what I eat, how I receive feedback, how I use running techniques.
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Atoms are the building blocks of matter, Atomic Habits (a tiny change, the 1% improvement) are the building blocks of desired results
Chapter 2: How Your Habits Shape Your Identity
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There are three levels of change, identity change (what you believe), process change (how you achieve your results) and outcome change (the actual results)
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The most effective way to change your habits is to focus NOT on what you want to achieve but who you want to become
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I want to become skinny (outcome) and if I stick to this diet (process), I’ll become skinny.
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This must include the Identity change
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My goal is not to read the book, the goal is to become a reader
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My goal is not to run a marathon, the goal is to become a runner
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To change your identity 1. Decide who you want to be (runner, healthy person) and 2. Reinforce your desired identity
- I want to be a healthy person. 2. To reinforce I ask myself the question “what would a healthy person do?”
- Habits matter because they can get you better results, but also change your beliefs (identity) about yourself.
Chapter 3: How to Build Better Habits in 4 Simple Steps
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A habit is a behavior that has been repeated enough times to become automatic
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Brushing your teeth, taking a shower, making your bed
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Habits can be broken down into four simple steps (cue, craving, routine, reward)
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Cue: Phone buzzes with a new message
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Craving: You want to know the contents of the message
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Routine: You grab your phone and read the text
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Reward: You satisfy the craving to read the message. Now this becomes a habit because looking at your phone becomes associated with your phone buzzing
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Cue: I smell chocolate while in the kitchen
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Craving: I begin to crave the chocolate
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Routine: I take the chocolate from the kitchen and eat it
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Reward: I satisfy my craving to eat chocolate . Now, eating a chocolate becomes associated with being in the kitchen
How To Create Good Habits
The 1st Law Make It Obvious
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1.1 Fill out the Habits Scorecard. Write down your current habits to become aware of them.
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Label all you habits positive, negative, or neutral (ex. brushing +, phone — ) lets you know where to work on
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1.2 Use implementation intentions: “I will [BEHAVIOR] at [TIME] in [LOCATION].”
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I will journal at 6:15 AM on my desk for at least to minutes
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1.3 Use habit stacking: “After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [NEW HABIT].”
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When I [ACTION], I will [HABIT] is another formula that also works
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After taking a shower, I will brush my teeth
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1.4 Design your environment. Make the cues of good habits obvious and visible.
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“Set yourself up for success”
The 2nd Law Make It Attractive
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2.1 Use temptation bundling. Pair an action you want to do with an action you need to do.
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After I [CURRENT HABIT], I will [HABIT I NEED]. After [HABIT I NEED], I will [HABIT I WANT]
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After I pull out my phone, I will do ten pushups (need). After I do ten pushups, I will check my email (want)
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2.2 Join a culture where your desired behavior is the normal behavior.
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SFHS Snails Running is motivating me to nike and run more than I normally would
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2.3 Create a motivation ritual. Do something you enjoy immediately before a difficult habit.
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I should do it before sports games; even if it doesn’t get me motivated, it puts me in game mode.
The 3rd Law Make It Easy
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3.1 Reduce friction. Decrease the number of steps between you and your good habits.
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This way you will perform these habits more often
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Habits stay ingrained to you based on the number of times you perform them
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3.2 Prime the environment. Prepare your environment to make future actions easier.
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Lay out several signs of water around the house, or several water bottles
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3.3 Master the decisive moment. Optimize the small choices that deliver outsized impact.
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Kind of like a fork in the road which send you down a productive day or unproductive day
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3.4 Use the Two-Minute Rule. Downscale your habits until they can be done in two minutes
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Run a marathon (though have identity based goals) → Run a 5K → Walk 10,000 steps → Walk 10 minutes → Put on your running shoes
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3.5 Automate your habits. Invest in technology and one time purchases that lock in future behavior.
The 4th Law Make It Satisfying
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4.1 Use reinforcement. Give yourself an immediate reward when you complete your habit.
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This way we are more likely to repeat the action
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“What is immediately rewarded is repeated. What is immediately pushed is avoided.”
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4.2 Make “doing nothing” enjoyable. When avoiding a bad habit, design a way to see the benefits.
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4.3 Use a habit tracker. Keep track of your habit streak and “don’t break the chain.”
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4.4 Never miss twice. When you forget to do a habit, make sure you get back on track immediately.
How to Break a Bad Habit
Inversion of the 1st Law Make It Invisible
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1.5 Reduce exposure. Remove the cues of your bad habits from your environment.
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Easier to avoid temptation altogether than resist it
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Put video games out of your sight
Inversion of the 2nd Law Make it Unattractive
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2.4 Reframe your mindset. Highlight the benefits of avoiding your bad habits.
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Chess.com blitz is ruining my chess skills
Inversion of the 3rd Law Make It Difficult
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3.6 Increase friction. Increase the number of steps between you and your bad habits.
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Make it hard to access, change the password if it is a website, unplug your video game console
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3.7 Use a commitment device. Restrict your future choices to the ones that benefit you
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Apps that block you from the internet during work hours.
Inversion of the 4th Law Make it Unsatisfying
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4.5 Get an accountability partner. Ask someone to watch your behavior.
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Have your friend change your password to a website, have your parents hide your phone
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4.6 Create a habit contract. Make the costs of your bad habits public and painful.
The first three laws of behavior change increase the odds that a behavior will be performed the first time. The fourth law of behavior change increases the odds that behavior will be repeated next time
Advanced Tactics
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The secret to maximizing your odds of success is choosing the right field of competition
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What feels like fun to me but work to others?
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What comes naturally to me?
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What makes me lose track of time?
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Where do I get greater returns than the average person?
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Genes provide a powerful advantage in favorable circumstances and a serious disadvantages in unfavorable circumstances
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Okay a game that faces your strengths
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If you can’t find a game that favors you create one
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Genes do not eliminate the need for hard work, they clarify it
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The Goldilocks Rule states that human experience peak motivation when working on tasks that are right on the edge on current abilities, essentially when you are in a flow channel or flow state
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Anyone can work hard when they feel motivated. It’s the ability to keep going when the work isn’t exciting that makes the difference
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Professionals stick to the schedule, amateurs let life get in the way
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Habits + Deliberate Practice = Mastery
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Reflection and review is a process that allows you to remain conscious of your performance overtime